Diary of a Match Maker – 5 Things Women Want in a Man

Finding your person is no easy task, here at Two’s Company we know that. And we are more than happy to help. Today we are helping by sharing what we have learnt, as match makers for almost twelve years, about what women look for in a man.




  1. Chemistry

Don’t feel bad the next time you turn someone down because “the chemistry” just isn’t there. We have seen, over the years, that initially women are drawn to men based on attraction. And not just physical attraction! Women think: can I carry on a conversation with this person? Do I feel energized when I talk to this person? They are seeking somebody who they can easily form a deeper connection with.



  1. Vulnerability

It’s difficult to build a relationship with someone who’s closed off. Men who seem emotionally unavailable or unwilling to open their lives up to a partner, don’t keep a womans interest for very long.




  1. Stability

This is a big one, because it has three parts.  Emotionally stable (so not flying off at the handle), then economically stable, and also relationally stable. This means that you can count on him to be predictable, reliable, and that he’s essentially someone you could rely on if you owned a home together or had a child with him. These are the types of men who get snapped up very quickly within the agency!



  1. Humour

This is a big one for the ladies! If you can make her smile and laugh, you have a head start! We hear it all of the time.




5 . Emotional Presence

That means someone who stays focused on the talker — rather than looking at their phone or other distractions — but this goes both ways. A woman should be emotionally present while her significant other is talking, and she should expect him to do the same in return. But being present also includes being responsive. Meaning when someone texts or calls their partner, the other person should respond as soon as possible, or let them know if it’s going to be awhile before they can respond. We see a lot of confusion growing from lack of contact between partners, so make the effort!

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